They are disrespectful to each other, using terms like “Shut up!” or “You can’t do anything right!” Their arguments go around in circles, and they only end because one person becomes exhausted from all the yelling and screaming.

4. You both prioritize each other

As you go about your day, your thoughts turn to your partner. If you have a big decision to make, you consult with your partner. You seek your partner’s opinion on your own projects and plans. Your partner’s happiness and well-being are a number-one concern for you.

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To keep your relationship healthy and stable , you find ways to remind your partner how much you love them and how grateful you are that they are in your life.

From brewing his first-morning cup of coffee to a fantastic neck massage before she goes to bed at night, you show your gratitude through physical touch, verbal and written communication, and a soft, unexpected word of love.

6. You are deeply committed to the relationship

Both of you agreed prior to marriage that divorce would never be an option. This knowledge lends stability to your relationship, allowing you to work through moments of difficulty knowing that even during the rough patches, you will always have each other to rely upon.

7. There is a foundation of trust between you

A stable relationship sits on a bedrock of trust. You and your partner are 100% honest and genuine with each other. There is no jealousy between you.

You can be open, vulnerable, and authentic with each other. Whatever fears or emotions you share with your partner, you know he will always love you and care for you.

8. You accept each other completely

Couples in stable relationships accept each other for who they are , right now, today. They did not fall in love with the other’s potential, they fell in love with the other as they were.

Whatever transformations happen in the relationship-physical changes, illness, life challenges, you both accept and do not try to change each other into the partner you “wish you had.”

9. You share in each other’s spiritual development

Both of you seek to continue to grow and develop as human beings. You are invested in each other’s mental well-being. You share with each other the life lessons you learn as you move forward and applaud when your partner meets the challenges he sets up for himself.

You both recognize that the gift of life and love is precious, and you keep this at the forefront of your mind so that you never take these for granted.

10. You are empathetic and active listeners

You practice paying close attention when your partner is speaking to you and take the time to understand what the person is saying. By being an “active listener”, you both repeat back to the person what they’ve said to you or ask for more details if it’s not clear.

11. You acknowledge when uncertainty exists

You both openly discuss any emotions that may follow feelings of uncertainty and vulnerability (e.g. fear, frustration, sense of urgency).

Extra questions

Here are some additional questions on maintaining a stable and fulfilling relationship. Here, we address common questions and provide practical insights on communication, trust, intimacy, conflict resolution, and more, to help you nurture a healthy and lasting partnership.

What are some common challenges couples face in maintaining a stable relationship?

These challenges can be overcome by working together as a team, being open and honest with each other, and seeking professional help if needed.